Disadvantages of Body Shaming.
Nowadays,body shaminng in school area is the major problem in our country.This is because some of them felt that they are perfect than others that why the make fun with someone’s phisical type.The most of student not friendly with someone who obess or have dark tone skin colour.Not only that,they also bully the person.For example,they do verbal bully.They using derogatory their phisical types and do the uncomfortable statement towards bully victim.Other than that,they often give funny nickname and make it jokes in their class.In social media,if their friends upload photos or video they comment with rude word and embarassing that person.It is not good attidude because as student we should show a good attitude.We should respect each other and friendly with all classmate and scoolmate.It is because all people deserve tobe happy while sitting in class and study peacefully.
There effect when someone being bully in school.Body shamed can advesely affect someone’s mental health.First,the bully victims can cause depression.If they got depression the individual start hating his own body.This provokes them to hurt themselves,giving rise to suicidal thoughts.The individual can’t control themselves if have a depresssion and do something that dangerous to their body such as tap their hands untill their satisfaction.They also felt that die is the better way to avoid from being bully in school.If they got depression they must often go to the hospital to get a advice from psychologists and counselors to increase their confident level.It can cause the individua’s lessons are affected and miss the syllabus.
After that,body shamed also effect the bully victim of inesecurity with their friends.They think that they are not same level with others.The individuals also shame to go school if the have insecurities.They also comparing themselves with others.It also make they low self esteem to talk infront of people or making friends with others.It make them prefer to be alone in class and them do not likes express their opinions with others.
Body shamed can affect anxiety to the individuals.Anxiety makes the individuals difficult to get through their day.The individual easy to get nervousness,panic and fear as well as sweating and a rapid heartbeat.It make them do likes to go school because anxiety can attack them if they being bully or see the person that bully them in school.
The conclusion,body shamed can effect many dangerous thing to the victim.As a teacher we should give advise to all student about body shamed to create awareness to our student.
Lily's Story
According to a report from Unicef,Malaysia ranked second in Asia for the isue of cyber bullying among teenagers in 2021.This not only involves adults but more worrying for teeangers in aged betwwen 9 untill 17 starting to do cyber bullying.This makes Malaysia classified as toxic country if this problem continues to occur.
There many case about teenagers has been bullyed in social media.Lily,16.She was a little girl has involved to cyber bullying.On January 2021,she just moved to Malaysia because her father was passed away month before.She is quiet person but active in social media because in London she is young influecer who always share about study routine and many tips to grade in examination.
After one weeks in Malaysia,Lily called to register in school near to her house.She was exited to start her lesson and making new friendst.First day in school,lily was happy because all friends greeting she nicely.Lily assumed Malaysia have a sociable and kind even Lily comes from another country..Unfortunately,the reality is different from what she thought.Everything changed after her new friends found out her instagram’s account.
Every weeks lily uploaded her new content to make sure her account stay active.One day after her posted about tips to study smart,out of the blue she got many notification on her posted.When she look forward,did not expect her friend give a toxic comment to her posted.She so frustrated.Not only about her content,her friend shamed lily’s physical types.Lily think positive and deleted all toxic comment from her post immediately.She unactive her account to calm herself.She not going to school within 2 month.
In 2 month,she got many toxic message to her personal account.Her friends also posted lily’s picture to their story and make nonsense word such as fat woman,nerd woman and others rude word.Lily was upset and don’t take any meals also did not leave her room.She cried everyday because her friends behaviour.She thought she is useless person.She also tried to kill herself because of the toxic message that she got everyday.
One days,her mom try to deep talk with Lily.Lily shared what happened and her mom give many positives word to Lily.She wakeup and blocked all her toxic friends in her account and ignore all friends in school.She continue uploaded many content about study again because she realised that just 10 percent didn’t loved her content but there many people need her content.After what happened she became a positive person and started ignore all toxic comment.The lesson,as people we should respect others and make a positive vibe everyday.
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