IRRESPONSIBLE HUSBAND (ELLYA)
Responsibility in
marriage is a forever commitment to each other a promise to care, love, help
and support each other for the years to come. It is important for each the
individuals in relationship be ready for owning and accepting the
responsibilities in either their words and actions. However, if a man is unable
to carry out his responsibilities as a husband, many effect will affect their
family life, especially for the wife, such as causing work-family conflict for
the wife, adding to the wife’s burden, and leading to divorce
A few marriage is shown that it is found that the husband is contributing less to the relationship or being irresponsible towards it. When husbands tend to be irresponsible and the women have to take charge of things in their hands, it causing work-family conflict for the wife. While woman works more, she gets frustrated and the husband starts taking her for granted. Although work-family conflict can affect all employees, it is particularly important for married woman due to their roles as a wife and mother is a huge responsibility. So it’s always better if husband getting involved in sharing some of the responsibilities and duties with their wife
Other than that, wife’s burden will increase if they could not dealing with irresponsible husband. As we know, a married couple should combine their income and expenses and pay all bills from the combined total of both incomes. Unfortunately, some husbands just let the wife bear all the expenses just because the wife’s salary is higher than him. Both spouses should contribute to the household expenses to avoid wife’s burden increases and to be fair in marriage life.Lastly, when
wife have to facing irresponsible husband for a long time, it might lead to
divorce. In several cases, wife always been the one to work while her husband
is in and out of jobs, promised to go work but ends up hanging out with
friends, relaxing and avoiding finding a jod. When this thing keep happen in
marriage life, wife will definitely despair of living together and decided to
divorce.
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